Urban Rants
Urban Rants were created to have a space to say random thoughts, rants, or feelings. This page is open to the public for all to post. Still, Please be respectful of others in the Urban Poems community. Sometimes you just need to say it out loud without making it into a big deal. That is what Rants & Raves is for. I feel this is a great option for visitors of Urban Poems to get a vibe of others by using Community Post. Urban Rants was created because I myself love to express random thoughts.
Even so typing it out loud just gets it off of my chest. Most Social Media forces you to create a profile; which let’s face it people will stone you for anything you say. At least here you can just change your username and keep chatting lol. Hey let them argue with themselves. With that being said that doesn’t mean you should be a troll. It is just to say that you can abandon a social media disagreement if you wish. Anyways, chat away.
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Let’s be honest the current and build up climate of the way we as people have contaminated human interaction and lifestyle at this point most people walking around with some form of mental health issues.
I reject anything that sounds like manipulation. I deal with facts. You can tell me I am crazy a million times and I won’t believe you if you don’t know how to have a full conversation about where things went wrong. People don’t won’t to have that talk because they don’t want to hear about how they did you wrong. I am willing to let you talk but you gotta let me talk too. We never gonna sit around and talk “only” about my reaction. I’m not hearing it periodt. They only want to talk about your reaction. Not happening.
I think there is a difference in being selfish and narcissistic. A selfish person is only focused on their own needs and is not considerate of the thoughts and opinions of others. A narcissist is also that but also while balancing their negative emotions through others by literally mentally or even physically abusing others. I have seen selfish people grow out of selfishness but I have never seen a narcissist grow out of narcissism. Not saying that it is not possible because a demon can be cast out and narcissism is not the only issues that demons bring to people, it just sucks because when someone is struggling with that particular one their primary focus is hurting others. I am not signing up to be tortured by nobody but that is just my opinion. I base my opinions off of a person’s intent on whether I think it is narcissism or selfishness but either way you shouldn’t have to put up with it I am just saying sometimes it’s not narcissism. There are many bad personality traits… If someone digs in their nose yes they are nasty 🤢 but it doesn’t make them a narcissist. Or maybe I only think of narcissist as the people that intentionally hurts others for sick satisfaction but maybe the actual definition is different. But hey in these days I say if you see any red flags don’t take any chances.
When I talk to people that just sound genuinely happy and in a good mood they make me start laughing so good energy is also contagious.
This morning I was working out and I was joking around telling my husband I’m trying to get my legs strong so I can run with Sha’Carri; he gone tell me that she will beat me running backwards 🤣🤣🤣
So proud of Sha’Carri Richardson.🎉🎉🎉 You can feel it through her vibe that this was deep for her going wayyy beyond the surface like she was running to free herself of everything that was said to make her feel less than; it felt like her inner strength was in a 1000 and her resilience was shining bright. Every time I have seen her lately she has been on a whole new vibe.
Some people need to learn how to stay out of other people marriage.
Good morning Y’all. I am now doing a day prep to have more order in the day. I am prepping my dinner first thing in the morning because it takes me about 2hrs to cook most days so doing all of the prep work takes the time down to about 30-45 min. I don’t like to prepare meals for a whole week because I don’t like to eat them like that it seems like the freezer takes away from the meal or something. Also handling all task that take time are being prepped or completed in the morning. It makes life so much easier. My days have crazy so I really had to implement a prep plan. Also I am going to start going to sleep early because sometimes I don’t get enough sleep. No later than 11pm but I am aiming to go to sleep at 9pm
I just told my husband Good night and this man gone tell me “good night thang.” ???????????? Now if y’all remember a while back I told him to call me “sweet thang”. ???????????? Now what happened to the “sweet” part how I turn into just “thang”. ????????????
I just want to say heyyyyyyyy yalllllllllll 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙📣📣📣📣
I truly don’t like people who kick others while they are down. That is a special kind of evil.
Do not live in shame over things you have no control of. Live in a resolution and acceptance based mindset. Being able to accept that the puzzle has missing pieces and also being so determined that you still put the puzzle together and made new puzzle pieces out of colored in paper cut to fit the empty spaces. Resolution is about always knowing if there is a will there is a way. Acceptance is the first step to healing.
If you want to read the lost books of the bible Jasher is an amazingly good read.
The saying “you are what you attract” is talking about money. That is something rich people or people trying to fake it until they make it believe. What they are saying is rich people attract rich people and broke people attract broke people. Life is spiritual so toxic people are always seeking to exercise their demons by destroying genuine people. A lot of people that touch a certain level of money don’t understand spiritual. So sometimes they define people based on money brackets. Wicked people usually get rid of you once they think they completely destroyed your inner innocence because the mission is accomplished. It is good when they think you can’t bounce back because they will leave you alone. But if they think you gone bounce back they will be back to finish you off or try to weigh you down forever. I use to always think at work why don’t the people who are not toxic try to be friends because every time you turn around a toxic person trying to be glued to you and all the decent people just trying to mind their own business. Lol I think most decent people be too traumatized by the crazies to even want to make friends.
Just take a moment and really talk to the Most High about it.